The discovery of the female G spot created a real sensation at one time, although there is still no belief in its existence. At the same time, only a few people know about a similar male zone, but every guy definitely has one, and it is easier to find. All you need is good lubrication and delicate fingers. And, of course, absolute trust, because not every girl will have the most intimate relationship.
Where is the G spot in men?
Unlike women who have to randomly search for a mystery zone, guys don't have to guess its location. In men, the "G" spot, where the famous prostate is hidden, is located on the front wall of the rectum, about 5 cm above the anus. To the touch, it resembles a tubercle the size of a walnut or chestnut, and swells when excited.
You don't need to examine the anus to find a man's G-spot. You can also affect the sensitive area from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the middle of the perineum (usually there is no hair in this area). For some children, the erogenous zone may shift slightly to the left or right. To find it, you can ask your spouse or lover to caress the perineal area with their tongue. From the outside, the prostate can be felt as an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men like to caress their G-spot?
Feelings from prostate stimulation can be very different. Some guys get incredible pleasure (literally - to tears), for others it helps to maintain arousal, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems unpleasant and even painful. But it is definitely worth a try in order not to deprive your man of a special experience. The main thing is to act cautiously and slowly, without sudden movements and force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation of the area is to test it during masturbation:
- Ejaculation can be delayed by applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and anus just before ejaculation.
- The effect in the process brings more blood to the penis, making its pulsation stronger and more pleasant.
- Strong rhythmic pressure imitates the contraction of the prostate, increasing the intensity of the final stage of orgasm.
- For more pleasure, it is recommended to stroke the G-spot as soon as the body of the penis swells along its entire length, at the moment of maximum erection. If the sensations are unpleasant or not noticeable, you need to wait a little. If there is still no reaction at the moment of full arousal, perhaps this area is not considered erogenous in a particular man. In this case, it is better to focus on stroking the testicles and penis, or return to exploring the area later.
How to properly stimulate a man's G-spot?
If the partner has shyness or uncertainty, the first experiment may fail. But if one can truly free oneself, further explorations can be more enjoyable. In such games, special devices (finger attachments, vibration bullets, small vibrators) that are available in a wide variety of adult stores will help. You can caress the G-spot in at least two ways:
- From the inside. A finger or toy should be well lubricated and then inserted 5 cm or more into the anus. You should move in the direction of the pubis. You can find the sensitive "g" spot near the tubercle on the wall of the rectum. And then you need to carefully massage, observing the reaction of the man.
- Outside. Here you can perform stimulation in two ways - verbally or manually. A man will be happy to touch the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which can be replaced by passionate kisses. When stroking with your hands, a gentle water-based lubricant will help improve sliding and give your partner more pleasure. Using circular movements and light pressure, you need to massage the area with the pad of your finger.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot will vibrate. To increase the pleasure, it is necessary to influence it with timely contractions. Proponents of Eastern teachings claim that in this way you can delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this regard, the male G zone was called the "million dollar spot" and sexologists developed special methods to delay ejaculation. Such exercises will be useful for sexual dysfunction.
Is stroking the G spot good for a man?
In fact, stimulation of the zone can be compared to a light prostate massage. Only the latter is carried out in a medical institution and does not always bring pleasant feelings, it associates men with negativity and embarrassment. Stroking the erogenous G-spot in a romantic setting is quite another matter: both the atmosphere and the presence of a loved one contribute to pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and bring more intimate tones to them.
As for the health benefits, regularly stroking the prostate will be a good prevention of diseases of the male organ. But only on condition that there is currently no pathology on this side and the massage itself is performed gently without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
Chronic and acute diseases of the male reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, hyperplasia or tuberculosis of the prostate gland, urinary disorders, hemorrhoids, fissures in the anus, etc. if present, it is not recommended to affect the prostate area. When in doubt, it's optimal. Using light oral stimulation, except for anal and hand massage of the G-spot.